Jesus does not love the sinners as they are but loves the holy ones (saints) who stopped sinning to become holy

It is not true that our relationship status doe not matter to Jesus God. It is not true that Jesus God loves us even if we do not get our acts together. There is not straight biblical basis for that assertion of Satan.

God cannot even hear or listen to the sinners (John 9:31).

However, Jesus is clear about whom He loves in John 14:21: those believers who keep His commandments not those who cannot get their acts together to keep them.

John 14:21 ASV

(21) He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself unto him.

John 9:31 ASV

(31) We know that God heareth not sinners: but if any man be a worshipper of God, and do his will, him he heareth.

Matthew 12:46-50 ASV

(46) While he was yet speaking to the multitudes, behold, his mother and his brethren stood without, seeking to speak to him. (47) And one said unto him, Behold, thy mother and thy brethren stand without, seeking to speak to thee. (48) But he answered and said unto him that told him, Who is my mother? and who are my brethren? (49) And he stretched forth his hand towards his disciples, and said, Behold, my mother and my brethren! (50) For whosoever shall do the will of my Father who is in heaven, he is my brother, and sister, and mother.